Doing the Deed

At some point she will ask you if you want to "get comfortable." This means "are you ready to have ?" Your job now is to lead her to the bedroom and get naked. To protect herself legally, she will wait until the client is naked before she undresses. I suppose the legal idea here is that you've paid for a massage, but when she sees your irresistible naked body, she can no longer control herself and has to fuck you.

Relax and enjoy it. She a pro and you're the client. This isn't a woman you have to impress. She's been with a lot of other men who are a lot better looking than you, and a lot worse looking than you. As far as comparing yourself to other clients, if you are clean, sober, and nice to her, and made her laugh, you're already in the top 10% of all clients and you're doing just fine.

If you're nervous, you might start out with a back rub to get used to touching each other. Take your time. If this is your first time and you're uncomfortable, you might want to agree up front that you may need extra time and work out an extra tip and agency fee so that you can take longer if necessary. That way you don't have to rush things.

During foreplay, touch her softly like you would do with any other lover. Be romantic. Even though she is a pro, she is also a woman and her body responds like any woman's. If you know what you're doing, she is going to have a very good time too. Women enjoy and if the situations is right, they like to get their rocks off, just like you.

You want to be sensitive to what she wants. Some women don't like you to put your finger in them. Others just love it. If she says don't do something, don't do it. Most escorts don't do anal , so if that's what you want, you should say so when you call and get an escort that will do it. Also, kissing on the mouth is generally a no-no, so don't even try without asking first.

A condom is required. Don't ask if you can skip it because VD is real and the woman doesn't want to get it, or give it to you. However, many women don't buy the best condoms, so if you have a brand you like, buy your own and offer to use your condoms. It will save her from having to use one of hers. It will also avoid an awkward delay if she forgets to bring one and would otherwise have to leave and run to the store to get one. This actually happens more often than it should.

I always keep a tube of KY Jelly by the bed. Lubrication is good. She may be wet enough already, but often she won't be. There are several reasons that a woman may not get wet, even when she's hot. These include where she is in her monthly cycle, if she's just douched, her mood, how many other guys she's done today, if her rent's paid, or what medication she's on (nasal decongestants will dry up more than her nose). So after putting the condom on, grease it up good.

Being clean is a big turn on for escorts. Women like guys when they just got out of the shower. All women like candle light. Escorts are no exception.

Although the escort is supposed to bring these supplies it's a good idea that you have your own. I've had several escorts show up and forget to bring things so don't count on them having their act together. Besides, you may prefer a better brand of condom than they have. I personally like Lifestyle Ultra Thin Lubricated condoms. I don't get the ones with Nonoxidol 9 because I've had several escorts mention they have a bad reaction to it. I also keep a supply of tampons and douche. Also have clean washcloths and towels in the bathroom so you both can clean up afterwards.